Life Transitions Therapy in Rotterdam

Major life changes can unsettle your sense of who you are. Therapy provides space to process what's changed and find your footing in a new reality.

By Evin Zorba, NIP-registered psychologist #235833 in Rotterdam. Sessions in English, Turkish, or Dutch, online or at Westplein 12, Rotterdam.

Navigating Change

Life transitions, even positive ones, involve loss. Moving to a new country means losing daily access to the people and places that defined your life. A career change means losing a professional identity you may have spent years building. Becoming a parent means losing the freedom and self-focus of your previous life.

These losses are often invisible to others or dismissed as "just part of life." But the disorientation, grief, and identity questions that accompany major transitions are real and deserve attention.

Types of Transitions

  • Relocation - Moving to a new city or country, whether by choice or necessity
  • Career changes - New jobs, career pivots, job loss, retirement, or questions about professional direction
  • Relationship shifts - Marriage, divorce, ending long-term relationships, entering new relationships
  • Becoming a parent - The identity shift that comes with parenthood
  • Loss and grief - Death of loved ones, end of relationships, loss of health or abilities
  • Life stage transitions - Midlife questions, aging, children leaving home
  • Identity transitions - Coming out, religious or cultural shifts, discovering new aspects of yourself
  • Repatriation - The often-unexpected difficulty of returning to your home country
"The Holmes-Rahe Stress Inventory ranks 'change in residence' and 'change in living conditions' among significant life stressors."

When you move internationally, you're experiencing multiple major stressors simultaneously.

Read: Why Anxiety Gets Worse After Moving Abroad

How Therapy Helps

Transitions often trigger questions that were previously settled: Who am I now? What do I want? What matters to me? These questions can be destabilizing, but they're also opportunities for growth.

Processing Loss

Every transition involves leaving something behind. Therapy provides space to acknowledge and grieve these losses, even when the change was chosen or positive overall.

Finding Meaning

Existential therapy approaches help explore questions of meaning, purpose, and identity that transitions often surface.

Building on Strengths

You've navigated changes before. Therapy helps identify the resources and resilience you already have and apply them to current challenges.

Creating New Foundations

As you process what's changed, we work toward building a new sense of self that integrates both who you were and who you're becoming.

What to Expect

Transition-focused therapy acknowledges that you're in between: no longer who you were, not yet who you'll become. We work with this uncertainty rather than rushing past it.

The duration of therapy depends on the nature of the transition and your goals. Some people find value in short-term work focused on a specific transition; others discover deeper themes they want to explore.

Going Through a Transition?

Start with a free 15-minute intro call to discuss what you're navigating.

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